Stockhold syndrome in Palestinian women


January 28, 2016
Sarah Benton


Awakening – an image of the ideal Palestinian woman – both her ‘Awakening’ and the ‘awakening’ of the knife intifada are portrayed romantically. Her participation would make her part of the brotherhood. ‘Awakening’, by Algerian caricaturist Akrem Boutora, has been widely shared by Palestinian activists. Facebook

OPT: Little recourse for victims of gender-based violence

By IRIN
January 27, 2011

RAMALLAH, – Gender-based violence in the occupied Palestinian territory remains at epidemic levels, according to UN agencies, local NGOs and women, while victims lack legal recourse and often face a family backlash for reporting crimes.

The number of sexual assault cases reported from 2006 to 2009 increased more than seven times, while the number of attempted murder cases (of women) increased five times, according to the Palestinian Authority (PA) women’s affairs ministry. The figures do not including numerous cases of drowning and falling in which a family member was responsible for the incident.

This data prompted the PA to launch a national plan to combat violence against women in January, in conjunction with six partner UN agencies and funded by a US$9 million grant from the Spanish government.

The plan aims to end gender-based violence through prevention, protection and law enforcement. However, even if the laws are successfully amended, most Palestinian women say they prefer not to report crimes against them so as to avoid social stigma and potential divorce.

Shadia Abu-Jawad, aged 24 and recently divorced, from Beit Hanoun in Gaza, told IRIN she reported her ex-husband to the police for abusing her.

“He beat me to the point that my nose bled and I was badly bruised, even on my face,” said Shadia, but “he divorced me for reporting him.” Shadia, unemployed and an unlikely candidate for remarriage now that her case is public, fears her ex-husband will take custody of their two-year-old son.

Basic law

Palestinian basic law, intended as a temporary constitution for the PA, was ratified by the legislature in 1997 and signed into law by former president Yasser Arafat in 2002. Article 92 of the Basic Law says “personal status shall be assumed by Sharia and religious courts in accordance with law.” Personal status laws encompass nearly all legal areas that most acutely affect women, including marriage, divorce, child custody, maintenance, and inheritance.

”We demand that all laws related to women’s rights, including personal status law, be transferred from Sharia [Islamic] courts to Palestinian basic law” “We demand that all laws related to women’s rights, including personal status law, be transferred from Sharia [Islamic] courts to Palestinian basic law,” said women’s rights attorney Karem Neshwan, with the Women’s Affairs Council in Gaza.

However, PA women’s affairs minister Rabiha Diab said Palestinian basic law does not give women equal protection under the law.

“The penal code [under Palestinian basic law] includes laws that are unjust to women and must be amended,” said Diab, speaking at a 17 January press conference to launch the plan [to combat violence against women] in Ramallah. “The plan includes long-term development goals to increase the role of women in government,” she said.

Palestinian women, especially those in government, and civil society sectors are looking to judicial reform as a key step towards equality, since changes in attitudes and beliefs about women are coming slowly in this patriarchal society.

Men and women think domestic violence is permissible under the law. It’s more connected to Arab culture than to Islam

“My husband often hits me, and now he is planning to marry a second wife,” said Lina, a 30-year-old from Ramallah. She requested that her family name be omitted. “I want to report him and to leave him, but divorce is scandalous and I fear I could lose custody of our two children.”

Discussion of private matters in a public forum is largely taboo in Palestinian society.

Penal code amendments

Assistant deputy justice minister Munjid Abdullah, in Ramallah, said the ministry is currently amending the penal code, under Palestinian Basic Law, to better protect women like Lina. Several of the amendments to basic law relate to women’s rights.

“Rape and physical abuse between a husband and wife is illegal and falls under criminal law,” he said.

However, Judge Daoud Darawi, a justice ministry consultant and expert in cases of gender-based violence, told IRIN: “The new text makes un-consensual intercourse between a man and a woman illegal, but does not specifically mention relations between husbands and wives.”

“This ambiguity will be a problem; it’s unlikely the law will be implemented between husbands and wives,” he said, adding that the new plan to combat violence against women will be taken into consideration in drafting amendments to the penal code.


A Palestinian worker with SAWA takes confidential calls about domestic violence against a woman. Sawa runs hotlines for both women and children. Photo by Eric Silverman.

Many Palestinian victims of sexual assault and domestic violence say there is no recourse for them, so they choose to remain silent.

“Men and women think domestic violence is permissible under the law, especially if a husband suspects that his wife has committed adultery,” said Reem Gitan, a 21-year-old business major at Birzeit University in Ramallah, the largest West Bank university. “This is a trend across the Arab world, but it’s more connected to Arab culture than to Islam,” she said.

The new code will be drafted in the next 3-6 months and will be implemented in the West Bank and Gaza in about a year, said assistant deputy justice minister Adullah. Although, the ministry has yet to determine if the new code will be presented to Palestinian Mahmoud Abbas for approval or to the legislative council.

“There is no connection between the justice ministry in Ramallah and in Gaza,” said deputy justice minister in Gaza Omar Al-Barsh. “Any law that is approved by the legislative council will be implemented in the West Bank and Gaza, but presidential approval alone is illegal.”

The Palestinian legislative council is currently frozen due the internal conflict between ruling factions Fatah in the West Bank and Hamas in Gaza.

Still living under Israeli military occupation, and with 35 percent of the population below the poverty line, according to the UN Development Programme (UNDP), Palestinian women lack the stability and resources to launch a full-scale women’s rights movement.

Helpline

Meanwhile, local women’s NGOs are trying to fill the void of institutional support for victims.

Sawa, a local Palestinian NGO which combats violence against women, operates a helpline seven days a week for abuse victims in the West Bank and Gaza.

Raneem Dmari : “If a women reports an assault to the police, especially in a rural area, the community will not stand behind her and she will be labelled promiscuous.” “We receive 600-700 calls a day from women; the majority of the callers are victims of domestic violence and incest, and over half are from Gaza,” said director Ohaila Shomar. There is no institutional mechanism related to hospitals or the healthcare system to treat victims or to document their trauma, she said.

“Many callers have questions about health problems related to their assault,” she said, and often the personal security of medical professionals and social workers who assist victims is threatened by the victim’s family.

We aim to be the lead organization working against the prevailing culture of violence and promoting a culture of peace and security which serves human and community development in order to achieve a democratic society based on the principles of equality and social justice and on human rights.
Sawa’s statement of aims

According to a 2009 study published by the Palestinian Women’s Information and Media Center in Gaza, 67 percent of women were reported to be subjected to verbal violence on a regular basis; 71 percent to psychological violence; 52 percent to physical violence; and 14 percent to sexual violence.

“If a woman reports an assault to the police, especially in a rural area, the community will not stand behind her and she will be labelled promiscuous,” said Raneem Dmari, a 21-year-old psychology student from Jerusalem. “And her husband will leave her or divorce her.”

Even when women are aware of their rights, many feel the risk of losing family or social support makes it not worth seeking justice.

Tamam Adel Hamed, a 57-year-old mother of five from a village outside Ramallah, said she was not seeing change for women in her community. “If a woman [from her area] is raped the perpetrator and the victim are often forced by their families to marry.”

There are currently three safe-houses for victims of gender-based violence in the West Bank – in Ramallah, Nablus and Bethlehem – but there are none in Gaza to date. The PA plan to combat violence intends to create additional safe spaces for victims.



SAWA’s 7th annual conference in Ramallah. The theme was “Stockholm Syndrome—Hostages Sympathize with their Captors”.

Sawa Holds its Seventh Annual Conference in Ramallah

By Sawa
December, 2011

Ramallah—Sawa—All the Women Together, Today and Tomorrow held its seventh annual conference in the conference hall at the Red Crescent in Ramallah. The conference was titled “Stockholm Syndrome—Hostages Sympathize with their Captors”, and drew wide participation from organizations interested in reduction of violence, and from those interested in increasing awareness among the public on the phenomenon of this syndrome, in order to empower them to understand and address it. Ohaila Shomar, General Director of Sawa, stated that through their daily work, Sawa staff have encountered many cases of victims of violence sympathizing with their abusers. It is especially common among women. Sawa endeavors to offer protection to these cases and to help them reach a level where they are able to protect themselves, and also to increase their awareness on the common phenomenon of Stockholm Syndrome, through psychological support and counselling.

Jalal Khader, the legal advisor to Sawa, mentioned that Sawa intends to include discussion of the syndrome in trainings for psychological counselors, police, public prosecutors, and doctors, to increase their awareness. In addition, introducing the phenomenon during workshops for mothers will help them to play a role in recognizing and addressing it among their children, and to oppose those who abuse and impose their power, or the occupation forces.

Abd al-Majid Swelem, a professor of Regional Studies at Al-Quds University, reconfirmed that Stockholm Syndrome is a common phenomenon affecting many of our daily lives. It influences the psychological situation of the sufferer, and affects individuals who have become victims of abuse by those with more power. As a result of the great fear he or she feels, the sufferer of Stockholm Syndrome develops some form of sympathy with the abuser or attacker, and may even come to display some of the abuser’s own traits or behaviours.

Swelem discussed the political aspects of violence, for example, the effects suffered by a Palestinian citizen exposed daily to the repressive practices of the occupation forces, which gradually brings him or her to accept and become accustomed to the circumstances. This causes him or her to feel powerless and ineffectual, and unable to resist or change the situation–without understanding the dangerous psychological effects which are undermining his or her confidence, and can lead to mental problems such as depression.

During the first session of the conference, led by Intesar Disoqi and titled “Stockholm Syndrome Among Some Palestinians Under the Occupation”, Dr. Jawad Fatayer, Vice President and Consultant on Human Development at Al-Najah University, said that we can attempt to help the victim develop a new worldview, based in reality, and informed by a spirit of change and refusal to remain silent about abuse. It is estimated that most Stockholm Syndrome sufferers are women and children who do not have much power in their lives. He added that one of the psychological aspects of the syndrome is that the victim, instead of condemning the abuser, provides excuses and justifications for the abusive actions, such as anger. The situation may lead to the victim committing suicide, or blaming him or herself for accepting the control of the abuser or the person in power.

The second session was led by Dr. Swelem and titled “Psychological Effects of Stockholm Syndrome upon the Victim”. A lecturer in Social Sciences at Bethlehem University, Minerva Qassis Jaraisi gave a lecture called “Contributing to Changing the Attitude of Young People toward Women’s Situation in general and Violence against Women in Particular”. Dr. Iyad Al-Hallaq, the head of the Psychology Department at Al-Quds University gave a lecture titled “After Stockholm Syndrome” and Ms. Flora Salman, Counseling and Therapy Officer at Sawa, spoke on “The Victim: Between Reality and Imagination”.

The third session was led by Jalal Khader, the legal advisor at Sawa, and focused on “The Child Protection Helpline—Palestine: Its Current Situation and Challenges”. Professor Ayman Abd Al-Majid from Bir Zeit University was the central participant in this session.

The name “Stockholm Syndrome” comes from the events that occurred in Stockholm, Sweden, after a group robbed a bank in the 1973 and took some of its employees hostage for six days. After their release, the hostages were found to sympathize with the bank robbers, and even tried to defend the criminals’ actions.

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